There is nothing more painful than finding out that your partner is sending you a move notice because they no longer love you. And those who move are not you, they are you.
A man endured and moved away when he received a message from his girl that he was coming home with a new man. At least that’s what most people think until they hear that the woman decides to leave the house and she doesn’t tell people why.
“When your ex tells you to move out while she’s on a work trip because the guy she cheated on you with is moving in, you get very creative moving out.”
There are many kinds of revenge, and this is just one of the best ever. You have to agree with us.
We just love how harmless and annoying this prank is. We have all now learned how you can get back at people who’ve hurt you without actually hurting them. Well, at least physically, because we’re sure she’s mentally disturbed after about ten random cryings, screaming, and huffing voices.
And we’re just jealous of his creative brain and the rush of exhilaration that your heartbreak is paid for.
A licensed psychologist shares how one can learn to move on from a heartbreak. Barton Goldsmith, Ph.D., acknowledges that heartbreaks can be saddening, but there’s an alternative to spending $100 on noisemakers, albeit that being our favorite method ever.
1. Let your tears run. “Let the tears flow; it’s healthy you are releasing grief and pain. You may be afraid to start because you’re fearful you’ll never stop, but you will.”
2. Find fun activities to occupy your days. “Exercise, read, watch some self-help TV/DVDs, learn to meditate, and never underestimate the power of positive prayer. Pick things that you know will be fun or beneficial and do them. Don’t wait for the mood to come over you; take one action and then take another.”
3. Reach out when you need support. “There are numerous groups for the newly single (more for women than for men). Just don’t try to tough it out or go it alone; support from others is healing, even if those people never become close friends.”
4. Don’t be a pushover. “If your soon-to-be-ex continues to call you or simply won’t go away (or move out), tell them you can’t heal with them around and ask them to keep their distance. If they are harassing or threatening you, it is best to call law enforcement for information and advice.”
5. Spend your day the way you wouldn’t have when you weren’t single. “If you wake up early, take a walk, go out to breakfast or do something around the house. Try a little ‘retail therapy’ (go shopping) or enjoy the decadence of going to a movie in the middle of the day. Many businesses allow their staff to take ‘mental health days if needed. If you can’t sleep, do the crossword puzzle, read or watch TV. Don’t sit in your room and ruminate; you have to free your mind so your heart can heal.”
6. Say no to replacements. “We all know the term ‘rebound relationship.’ These happen when we (unconsciously) use another person to fill the gap that’s been created by the ending of a relationship. These transitional connections can feel healing in the short term, but if you don’t process your pain appropriately, you will not be able to be in a fully committed partnership.”
7. Don’t wallow all alone. “Hang out with friends or make new ones, go to coffee with someone you can talk to, volunteer in your community. You will need time alone, but if you isolate yourself, you won’t be able to fully process your feelings or get the support you need to heal.”
8. Trust your feelings. “Even if you were taken by surprise by the breakup, your inner voice is telling you something. Listen carefully, and you will hear that it will all be OK. You just have to let your feelings guide you.”
9. Let time heal your heart at its own pace. “Don’t rush out and buy a new car or move to a new home or another town. Major changes like those are merely a way of avoiding your feelings. Believe that with a little time, patience and support, you will feel better and find love again.”
10. Research. “Find out what others, who have not just survived but thrived after their relationships ended, did to achieve peace of mind. There are some great books on surviving a breakup; my favorite is ‘How to Survive the Loss of a Love’ by Peter McWilliams. This little gem will give you insight, exercises, and some sage advice for dealing with this heart-wrenching issue.”